
My husband and I attended a meeting with Mrs. S, our son's third grade teacher. It was our best teacher meeting - ever! I was so happy, I got teary-eyed.
You see, my son is the well liked
average student in class. His schoolwork is average and he is neither teacher's pet nor problem child. He's the kid that blends in and squeaks by unnoticed. Historically, our teacher meetings end with "He could do better, if he just applied himself." But today's meeting was different . . .
Mrs. S said "I'm crazy about your son and am so glad to have him in my class." Mrs. S finds my son's outbursts of laughter infectious instead of disruptive. She finds his goofy personality charming instead of obnoxious. She believes his wacky journal writing is detailed and creative instead of strange. She doesn't see an underachiever. Mrs. S sees my son and appreciates who he is, but doesn't criticize who he isn't. Having a teacher like Mrs. S is a rare occurrence in our competitive public school district. My son is very lucky.
This trimester, I'll be cheering for the average students who work hard everyday, but go unnoticed. Good luck on your parent-teacher conference. I hope your meeting is as positive and surprising as ours.